Hmm. Yest went to mps. Didn't really get to see many cases. Bt at least saw a few. N learnt a bit!:) hehe.
Bt e greatest learnin took place during a casual conversation b/w e few of us who were waitin there.
Fiona asked if sw-ers need to b selfless. N i said no. I feel tt sw is a profession. U need passion n of coz a kind heart tt is able to empathise. Bt u dun haf to b selfless.
Den jiahui had a diff opinion. N i kinda got so aggitated during e conversation tt i felt tt it was a pretty tensed up argument le. Bt dun tink e rest caught it. Bt nt sure if jiahui sensed it.
Den wen i went hm. As a sw-er who is undergoin trg nw. I haf to dig deeper n reflect. N i kinda knew why i reacted tt way. At first i thot it was only coz of character.
Bt after tt i kinda saw light. Another more impt reason was cox fiona's qn touched e forbidden area within my heart. Coz even tho i majored in sw. I noe tt i aren't really tt passionate bout sw. I m more interested in interaction with children n also mental health patients. I wanna Help them. Bt izzit like e social work process? Maybe nt! Plus i noe i chose sw for selfish reasons. For myself. N i noe i aren't selfless! N nor do i wan to bring hm my clients' prob in future! They say tt usually we can't. Bt i m nt afraid of being unable. Bt more afraid of being called heartless if i were to go hm carefree.
Yep. Does anyone noe bout tt? Perhaps my sis. Haf i told tong/ancestor b4? Maybe yes! Bt ppl alr tink of me as being noble le. So watever i say they will only tink tt i m jus being humblr or sth. They most prob tink tt i m jus tryin to assure them tt i wun bring hm e probs n stuff wen actually i can. Bt as i said tt isn't my worry.
Haha. Yep! Tt's why i got so aggitated wen jiahui brought up e pt of societal expectation. Tho i still disagree w tt. Coz my prob is of own's expectation of me being selfless. Yep.
N i didn't find out more frm her. Didn't noe she had pressure frm family. Yep.
So 2 mistakes i made:
1) operated frm a personal frame of mind - argued for my own pt only. Did nt consider client(fren)'s pov.
2) did nt probe further - early assumption.
Yep! So at least tt was a learnin exp. Yep. Blog again wen i m free!:)
Kheng:)
09.02.11
Bt e greatest learnin took place during a casual conversation b/w e few of us who were waitin there.
Fiona asked if sw-ers need to b selfless. N i said no. I feel tt sw is a profession. U need passion n of coz a kind heart tt is able to empathise. Bt u dun haf to b selfless.
Den jiahui had a diff opinion. N i kinda got so aggitated during e conversation tt i felt tt it was a pretty tensed up argument le. Bt dun tink e rest caught it. Bt nt sure if jiahui sensed it.
Den wen i went hm. As a sw-er who is undergoin trg nw. I haf to dig deeper n reflect. N i kinda knew why i reacted tt way. At first i thot it was only coz of character.
Bt after tt i kinda saw light. Another more impt reason was cox fiona's qn touched e forbidden area within my heart. Coz even tho i majored in sw. I noe tt i aren't really tt passionate bout sw. I m more interested in interaction with children n also mental health patients. I wanna Help them. Bt izzit like e social work process? Maybe nt! Plus i noe i chose sw for selfish reasons. For myself. N i noe i aren't selfless! N nor do i wan to bring hm my clients' prob in future! They say tt usually we can't. Bt i m nt afraid of being unable. Bt more afraid of being called heartless if i were to go hm carefree.
Yep. Does anyone noe bout tt? Perhaps my sis. Haf i told tong/ancestor b4? Maybe yes! Bt ppl alr tink of me as being noble le. So watever i say they will only tink tt i m jus being humblr or sth. They most prob tink tt i m jus tryin to assure them tt i wun bring hm e probs n stuff wen actually i can. Bt as i said tt isn't my worry.
Haha. Yep! Tt's why i got so aggitated wen jiahui brought up e pt of societal expectation. Tho i still disagree w tt. Coz my prob is of own's expectation of me being selfless. Yep.
N i didn't find out more frm her. Didn't noe she had pressure frm family. Yep.
So 2 mistakes i made:
1) operated frm a personal frame of mind - argued for my own pt only. Did nt consider client(fren)'s pov.
2) did nt probe further - early assumption.
Yep! So at least tt was a learnin exp. Yep. Blog again wen i m free!:)
Kheng:)
09.02.11
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